
"Are you paying attention?"
This is what my parents always used to say when I was a child.
"Yea sure Mom," I'd answer. But in reality I wasn't paying them any
attention. I was preoccupied in my own little world. This drove my
parent's crazy. Which made me a proud beastie of a son. (Aren't you
glad I wasn't your kid?)
Do you sometimes find it difficult to GET the attention of others?
Is it a challenge to HOLD people's attention at times?
Whatever role you are playing in business, getting attention is
absolutely critical. In many cases getting the favorable attention
of customers, prospects, employees, team members, strategic
partners, investors and stockholders can be the difference between
winning and losing.
In spite of this, few recognize that attention can be managed like
other precious resources. How? Now that I have your attention, I
will get to that shortly. In order for us to fully understand this
concept, let's first look at the types of attention:
Front-of-Mind Attention
This is the kind of attention that is
demanded when we are writing a report, engaged in a business
discussion, making a purchase or conducting a transaction. It is
conscious, focused and explicit attention.
Back-of-Mind Attention
While you may be engaging your conscious through these front-of-mind
attentions you are also using your back-of-mind attention to filter
through all kinds of thoughts such as a spouse or friend, a shopping
list and an upcoming vacation.
Captive Attention
These are things we MUST give our attention
simply because we have no choice. They include cinema advertising,
work assignments, poor weather, our boss's crummy jokes and so on.
Voluntary Attention
These are things we CHOOSE to pay attention to
like TV/print advertising, hobbies, glancing through a magazine.
These are typically less explicit stimuli.
Attractive and Adverse Attention
These are things that stand out
among the typical experiences in our day. Attractive attention
stimuli includes seeing an attractive women or man pass by, a
shooting star, a rainbow or a dolphin frolicking in the waves.
Adverse attention stimuli includes seeing a car accident, a highly
unattractive person, getting bad news.
The ultimate attention-getter draws on all five types of attention
simultaneously. These are experiences that characterize the most
intensely rewarding and enjoyable moments of our lives. Think of
extreme sports like skydiving, hang gliding, scuba diving, rock
climbing. These use all 5 of the areas of attention focused on one
activity. It seem that what people really love is to have every area
of their attention totally saturated.
How can you saturate your audience's attention? What can you do to
get their "Front-of-mind" working, stimulate their "Back-of-mind"
attention, "Captivate" them, get them to "Voluntarily" give you
their attention and stimulate both their adverse and attractive
attentions?
How to Get and Keep a Person's Attention
Here are some great tips on how to get and keep a person's attention
regardless of your circumstances: